Comments on: Too much weight on the destination and not the journey. http://blog.banksnetworking.com/2011/10/04/too-much-weight-on-the-destination-and-not-the-journey/ Adventures and lessons in the life of a "Computer Guy" Sun, 20 May 2012 16:37:35 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.1 By: phillip http://blog.banksnetworking.com/2011/10/04/too-much-weight-on-the-destination-and-not-the-journey/#comment-33264 phillip Tue, 04 Oct 2011 20:45:32 +0000 http://blog.banksnetworking.com/2011/10/04/too-much-weight-on-the-destination-and-not-the-journey/#comment-33264 Melie you are quite a strange one. I hate to look ahead. Even if I had a time machine that would take me to the end of my life I wouldn't go. I didn't want to know what sex any of my children would be either. I NEVER know what I'm going to want to do next and I want life to be the exact same way. I like to feel the whole universe is as crazy as I am. Melie you are quite a strange one. I hate to look ahead. Even if I had a time machine that would take me to the end of my life I wouldn’t go. I didn’t want to know what sex any of my children would be either. I NEVER know what I’m going to want to do next and I want life to be the exact same way. I like to feel the whole universe is as crazy as I am.

]]> By: Melie http://blog.banksnetworking.com/2011/10/04/too-much-weight-on-the-destination-and-not-the-journey/#comment-33249 Melie Tue, 04 Oct 2011 19:19:59 +0000 http://blog.banksnetworking.com/2011/10/04/too-much-weight-on-the-destination-and-not-the-journey/#comment-33249 I kind of disagree. And I also think that perfectionism and not being able to focus on the now, despite very often related, are two different things. I always read the last pages of the book I am reading after I cave completed the first couple of chapters. And I always read the recap of the movie I am going to watch. It doesn't take away from the enjoyment of the reading/watching process. On the contrary it allows me to enjoy it more as I know what I am going towards. I feel more calm and safe when I know what is in store. But of course, as you already know by now, I am weird like that... I kind of disagree. And I also think that perfectionism and not being able to focus on the now, despite very often related, are two different things.

I always read the last pages of the book I am reading after I cave completed the first couple of chapters. And I always read the recap of the movie I am going to watch. It doesn’t take away from the enjoyment of the reading/watching process. On the contrary it allows me to enjoy it more as I know what I am going towards. I feel more calm and safe when I know what is in store. But of course, as you already know by now, I am weird like that…

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